Mark 12:31
'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these."
Matthew 7:12
"Do unto others as you would have them do unto you."
Hope these help. If your neighbors are mean or soemthing, just ignore their mean side and treat them with respect, they'll be surprised and you'll be pouring hot coals onto their head. (As in, treatign the nice when they treat y ou terribly and your making them feel guilty)